it’s interesting to me that people continually post things about love and feeling “safe” with someone. because we’ve all been hurt, yes, but really, what are we all so afraid of? if we’re still living and still breathing and still walking around debating whether or not someone is safe then i guess we’ve made it so far right? so i think the problem is that too many people are diving into these relationships with all these oozing wounds of past relationships and they are so worried about not getting hurt and feeling safe that they are destroying everything around them. i think ultimately the concern should be “am i making this person feel safe?” instead of the other way around. but that’s just me and i’m a water sign so, whatevs.
